Why your emotional wellbeing matters.
Pausefully is committed to ensuring that everyone navigating the emotional complexities of endometriosis and fertility have access to compassionate support, the tools to prioritise their emotional wellbeing, and the confidence to advocate for their health, choices, and future.​
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Often overlooked, emotions are just as important as physical health. Endometriosis and fertility challenges are frequently viewed as purely physical conditions, but nurturing your mental wellbeing is equally crucial, especially when dealing with the complex emotions tied to fertility struggles.​
It's time to pause fully. In this fast-paced world, we often forget to tune in to what our bodies and hearts are telling us, ignoring our own needs. We place our trust in others, only to experience medical gaslighting or receive advice that doesn’t align with what’s right for us. The act of “pausing fully” encourages you to slow down, check in with yourself, and make space for the emotional healing you deserve.​
Hello! I’m Vicki Hodges, Endometriosis Fertility Coach & Trainee Counsellor.
I’m so glad you’re here. As someone who struggled with infertility as a result of endometriosis, I know the emotional toll this journey takes—the anxiety, the uncertainty, and the loneliness that can come with trying to navigate fertility challenges in a world where it feels like no one else truly understands.
Emotional burdens can affect every aspect of our lives from relationships, decision-making, stress levels, and overall wellbeing, and may even impact the success of fertility interventions. You need more than medical advice—you need a safe space to feel truly heard, supported, and empowered.
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You don’t have to go through this alone. I offer hope and clarity when you feel powerless and overwhelmed.
Whether you’re navigating news of infertility, having difficulty conceiving, undergoing IVF treatments, facing hysterectomy surgery, or grieving the loss of your fertility options, I’m here to support you every step of the way.​​
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Through personalised emotional wellness coaching, I can help you to process your thoughts, build emotional strength, find clarity in difficult decisions, and gain the confidence to advocate for your needs—putting you back in control no matter what challenges arise.
How it works.
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Schedule Your First Session
Start with a one-off consultation or dive straight into a series of block bookings to ensure sustained support over time.
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1 Session: A single designed to address immediate needs
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3 Sessions: Focused support ideal for gaining clarity, processing emotions, and self-advocacy​
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6 Sessions: Comprehensive support and action plan to empower you fully through every stage of your journey
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Personalised Coaching
Your journey is unique, and so is the support I provide.
During our sessions, we’ll focus on your specific emotional challenges, whether that’s coping with the stress of fertility treatments, processing grief, or building the confidence to advocate for yourself.
Together, we’ll create a tailored plan to nurture your emotional wellbeing and equip you with practical tools to navigate your fertility journey aligned with your individual needs.
On-Going Support
Fertility struggles don’t happen overnight, and neither does emotional healing.
Add on as many coaching sessions as you need. We’ll work together to build your emotional strength, find clarity in challenging moments, and ensure you feel empowered to take control
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Talking about what was happening has helped me focus on what I could control and gave me hope when I really needed it.
Because of Vicki's professional help and support I got my confidence and self-belief back. I feel very empowered and hopeful about my life in general. I found Vicki's energy calming and soothing, yet strong and impactful.
I didn’t feel comfortable sharing everything with my family or friends so it was such a relief to have someone who truly understood and could offer me the time to talk.
Featured on BBC Breakfast: Championing endometriosis awareness.
Earlier this year, Vicki was invited onto BBC Breakfast as an expert and advocate to discuss the urgent need for greater awareness and support for individuals living with endometriosis.
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Watch to learn how Pausefully is empowering individuals to prioritise their emotional wellbeing, advocate for their needs, and take control of their fertility journey—while also fostering understanding, allyship and inclusivity in workplaces.
Hertility Hormone & Fertility Test.
No matter what life stage you are at, get clarity into what’s going on inside your body. Pausefully has teamed up with Hertility to offer you a £10 discount on their award-winning, at home hormone and fertility tests.
​Comprehensive online health assessment
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Personalised hormone panel and at-home blood collection kit
Your own personal gynaecologist to analyse your results
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​£10 off full price of £149 or £37.25 x 4 interest-free payments
Enter PAUSEFULLY10 to receive £10 off
Get In Touch.
Whether you have questions about our services, need more information, or want to discuss how I can support you or your organisation, I'm here to help.
Ready to take the next step? Click below to book a free consultation and discover how we can work together.
"It's time to pause fully...You are your own best advocate. When you pause, listen to your needs, and prioritise your wellbeing, you take control of your health, choices, and future."